December 20, 2006




This is my niece, Rose. She was born on November 25, 2006 near Atlanta, GA, two weeks prior to her projected due date of December 9, 2006. I had never went to visit my brother Mikey on my own, prior to her birth. I knew that I wanted to see my niece or nephew when he/she was born or soon after and for months before she was born, I agonized about WHEN to visit. Do I go during Thanksgiving break? Do I wait until Christmas break? Her due date being smack in the middle of both of these holiday breaks was so tricky! Plus, I was in college at the time and had a complex schedule to deal with. After much deliberation, I decided to visit the second Christmas break began. But alas, Rose came into the world the day after Thanksgiving that year, and I impatiently waited for 20 days to pass until I could meet her. I literally jumped on a plane as soon as my last final exam of the semester was over and arrived that evening. Now I had never been around many children prior to this point in my life, and so when she was put into my arms, I was just so stunned and amazed at how small she was and how little she weighed. I studied her every feature for so long. It felt like hours. I completely fell in love with her the second I laid eyes on her.








Almost 4 years later, I can safely say that Rose has changed my life in so many ways and her life has been such a gift to mine. She made me realize what it was to love someone unconditionally and to marvel at the stages that a child goes through from newborn to infant to toddler to child, something I had never experienced firsthand. She can fully form sentences now and chatters away and I love to listen to her and most of all, I love that she knows who I am and can have conversations with me. I've never been so excited to see what someone's future holds. Most of all, I've never been so excited to love someone! I get so excited when I know someone that is about to embark on the same amazing adventure, cause I know it's not like anything else one can experience. Love for a child is sacred and amazing.





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